Funerals

October 7, 2024 by friendship_dg4v67

Wearing memorial jewellery is a unique and meaningful way to remember someone that you have lost. It can also help you to feel closer to them, and is something tangible that you can keep forever.

You can have memorial jewellery made in almost any material. However, precious metals such as gold, platinum and silver are the most durable. Furthermore, decorating your jewellery, such as engraving a person’s initials or adding their birthstone can make it even more personal.

Here are 3 sentimental ideas for memorial jewellery to honour a loved one.

Photo Memorial Jewellery

Photo memorial jewellery has been used for centuries and is still incredibly popular to this day. Because lockets have a large surface area for displaying imagery, they are the most common jewellery item for photos. What’s more, they also provide a protective shield to keep the image safe. However, you can have pictures inserted into other jewellery products, such as bracelets, brooches and even charms. What’s more, you can personalise your jewellery by inserting your chosen image into a frame of your choice. Whilst a heart shape is traditional, you could also opt for classy oval or square. No matter your preference, the final piece will serve as a beautiful reminder of the person you have lost.

Cremation Memorial Jewellery

Cremation memorial jewellery is truly unique, and is made by mixing a person’s ashes with resin, glass or metal. It is a beautiful way of honouring your loved one, and can help you to remember that they are always with you. Moreover, cremation jewellery can be made into a variety of exquisite products, including dazzling rings, pendants and even earrings.

Incorporate Your Loved One’s Handwriting

Engrave handwriting onto new or treasured jewellery to remember someone you have lost. There are many companies who offer this service, and all you need is a piece of paper with your loved one’s writing. So, have a look through letters, notes, and cards to find the right text. Once you’ve found a piece of writing that suits you, simply give it to your engraving company to do the rest. The result is a beautiful, individual piece with a deeply heartfelt and personal touch.

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April 10, 2024 by friendship_dg4v67

The thought of delivering a eulogy can feel overwhelming sometimes. There’s probably a lot you would like to say about the person you have lost, and you may also find it hard to speak about them without feeling emotional. Try to remember that it is natural to be upset, and that everybody at the funeral is there to encourage and comfort you.

We’ve put this guide together to help you to get through delivering a eulogy.

Plan Ahead

Planning out your speech in advance is one of the best ways to ensure you get through your eulogy. Public speaking can be challenging, but even more so if you are unprepared. So, write out a few notes, or even the entire piece, at least a few days before the service. This way, you are less likely to freeze up or blank on what you would like to say. Planning ahead also means you will also be able to keep track of how long your speech will take. This is particularly important for time-bound services.

Pace Yourself

When delivering the eulogy, there’s no need to rush through. Instead, speak at a gentle, comfortable pace. This way the congregation will be able to keep up with you and really take in what you are saying. Talking slowly will also enable you to have better control over your breathing, especially if you become emotional when delivering the eulogy.

Keep Tissues On You

Make sure to keep tissues with you on the day of the funeral. Even if you are not an emotional person, you may find you need them when the time comes to deliver the eulogy. Being prepared with some tissues means you can wipe away any tears or make up which may distract from your speech.

Breathe

Finally, remember to breathe whilst speaking the eulogy. Steady breathing will help you to stay more composed, and will help you to deliver your speech better. You can also pause and take some deep breaths during your speech if you need to. Don’t be too hard on yourself if you struggle to speak at times, or even cry. Everyone will admire and respect your bravery, and will be proud of you for undertaking such a difficult task.

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November 29, 2023 by friendship_dg4v67

When attending a funeral, being self aware and behaving in a respectful manner is of utmost importance. Not only will this make the grieving family feel supported, but is also a way of honouring the deceased. If you’d like to know our tips for funeral etiquette, keep reading.

1. Dress Appropriately

Traditionally, many people wear black clothing to funerals. This is because the colour black is largely associated with death and mourning. However, as long as your clothing is clean and smart, you can be a bit more adventurous with the colour. For men, a suit and tie is always a sensible choice. Women may also wear a suit, but a smart dress, or skirt and blouse are also appropriate. If there is a dress code or particular colour scheme for a funeral, the family will usually inform all guests in advance.

2. Switch Your Phone Off

Always ensure your phone is turned off before the funeral begins. Ideally, you should do this before entering the chapel and finding your seat. If you do not wish to switch off your phone, set it to silent and avoid using it for the duration of the service.

3. Don't Give Unsolicited Advice

Although phrases such as ‘don’t cry’ or ‘everything happens for a reason’ are often said to those who have lost a loved one, these sentiments are not the most helpful advice. Even if they are meant sincerely, it is best not to challenge people’s feelings on an emotional day. Instead, reassure others that you will be there for them, or that they can count on you if they need additional support.

4. Pay Your Respects

Although you may be at a loss for what to say, it is important to greet and pay your respects to the grieving family. Simply offering your condolences and reassurance will be well-received.

5. Arrive To The Funeral On Time

Never arrive late to a funeral. This can be incredibly insulting and disrespectful to the family of the deceased. Therefore, it is crucial you plan ahead and allow yourself plenty of time to get to the venue before the service begins. Arriving on time shows that you are taking the formality of the day and the feelings of others seriously.

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